Everyone LOVES to Point Fingers (or...how no one likes to find out BOTH sides before forming opinions)

Right off the bat, let me just say that EVERYONE will think this is about them. If you think it is, then "look within" and if you've done nothing wrong or if you've witnessed a situation, think about whether you heard both sides or if you have, (which is what a "friend" would do) have you done anything to help, or have you stood up on your pedestal and been judgemental and only served to exacerbate the situation? People who love to judge others without bothering to find out what the situation involves from BOTH sides before bad-mouthing one and coddling the other do just that...make things more difficult. This is NOT friendship, this is one-sided and shows favoritism and only serves to make matters worse because it doesn't really help either of the people that are really involved. So throw around words like "stalker" if you feel it really is warranted...but before you do...next time try finding out all the facts...that wouldn't just be a "friend" thing to do...it IS what I would have done for you.

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